using the traditional anniversary gifts by year as a guideline is a wonderful place to start,” says Jodi R. R. Smith, a wedding etiquette coach and the president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting.

Choosing an anniversary gift that reflects your ... and modern twists on traditional gifts, like silicon wedding bands or gold-dipped flowers, provide lasting mementos with a contemporary flair.

Your wedding anniversary is a time to ... Whether you’re looking for a traditional or modern five-year anniversary gift, we’ve curated some of our favorite presents to give you some inspiration.

"They love to do their own take on traditional wedding gifts," a source previously told PEOPLE. "The first anniversary was paper, and Meghan wrote out the wedding speech and had it framed for him." ...

According to the time-honored recommendations for wedding anniversary gifts, the traditional token for the third year is leather; the more modern gift for this anniversary is crystal or glass.